Looks more like sureau / elder Sambucus to me. Very early leafing out in spring is characteristinc of the genus, too.
Yes I think you're right ! The bark is indeed light grey and my potting mix comes from a place where there's a lots of Sambucus nigra. Thank you guys ! ;-).
Run your fingers along the stem. Sambucus stems are warty and have a characteristically foetid odour. Viburnum (also in Adoxaceae—the moschatel family) has a similar stem and flower morphology and many species smell stinky.