Lila you are just wonderful! Congratulations. I bow to your brilliant detective work. Many many thank. I really appreciate your hard work. Looking at pics on www I realised my flowers had lost most of the long whiskery stamens and the seed pods were already well developed. Only a few stamens still remain. Cossinia pinnata - Google Search:
If you have larger images and were willing to share, I wouldn't mind this one for Botany Photo of the Day (bark and flower pics)